Blog22 Jan 2018 · 8 min read

Mike Vekris at 1st National Wedding DJ Convention 2017

In March 2017 Athens hosted the 1st National Wedding DJ Convention, the first time Greek wedding DJs came together in one room to talk shop, not just music.

Mike was invited to speak about sales, and in particular about two words most DJs would rather avoid: upselling and cross-selling. The talk left the DJ booth for a while and looked at our work from the other side of the table, as the people who advise couples on the entertainment of their wedding. Below are the slides, translated into English and lightly edited for the page, with a few notes of ours in between. As he said in the room: get inspired, but don’t copy.

A talk by Mike Vekris

Upselling: sell the moment, not the machine

1st National Wedding DJ Convention · Athens, March 2017

Part one

Selling, before anything else.

01 · The thinking

The thinking

  • Give our services value.
  • Present every service as the solution to the couple’s “problem”.

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An intangible service is a challenge for any salesperson. A wedding entertainer doesn’t just provide a service. He provides solutions.

02 · Selling

Selling, by the book

A two-sided agreement in which one party undertakes to provide or deliver a product or a service to the buyer, and the buyer undertakes to pay the agreed price.

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03 · Selling

Selling, in plain words

The ability to present products or services in such a way that the customer wants to buy them, for their own benefit.

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“The reason it seems that price is all your customers care about is that you haven’t given them anything else to care about.”

Seth Godin

Give a couple more value than they pay for, and you are very close to a good sale. Just don’t confuse value with price: some of the things we treasure most are worth very little in money.

Part two

Who decides, and how.

04 · Selling at a wedding

Selling at a wedding

The golden rule, as it was told in 2017:

The bride decides. The groom signs.

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That was the rule of thumb in the Greek market at the time. With international couples today, we plan with both of them, and very often with their wedding planner too.

05 · Language

Speaking their language

Wedding decisions are usually made with the heart: emotion, imagination, dreams, and the things they have always wished for.

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“You don’t close a sale, you open a relationship, if you want to build a long-term, successful enterprise.”

Patricia Fripp

06 · Storytelling

Storytelling

Short stories from real life that end with the “problem” solved: the couple’s need met.

It usually plays with

  • Emotion
  • Imagination
  • Psychology
  • Judgement

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Part three

Upselling and cross-selling.

07 · Upselling

What is upselling?

A strategy in which the seller offers a more expensive version, or an upgrade, of a product to a customer who is already interested in it.

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You walk into an electronics store for a small 24-inch TV for the bedroom, and after a chat with the salesperson you walk out with a 48-inch one. You were buying a TV anyway. You see it every day, too: “Your storage is full. Upgrade?” And at a wedding? A couple calls about a DJ for their Saturday wedding, mentions a welcome party on the Thursday, and books us for both.

08 · Cross-selling

What is cross-selling?

A strategy in which the seller offers different, but related, products together, for a bigger sale.

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Same store, same TV. This time you also leave with a Blu-ray player, because a TV that good deserves films in full HD.

Part four

At the wedding.

09 · Lighting

Upselling lighting

Words that don’t help you sell lighting

  • “Disco lights”
  • “Robots”
  • “Moving heads”
  • “Scanners”

The word lighting is enough.

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Dance floor lighting in colour at a wedding
…they buy this.

In the room, this was a staged blackout followed by the lights coming on. Couples don’t rent machines. They buy a result, a feeling, a night with a character of its own.

Instead of

4 × FOS Beam 7R Hybrid moving heads, 230 W, 20 DMX channels. Stands and cables included.

Say

The dance floor that hosts your one-of-a-kind party will pulse all night, flooded with colour and patterns, always in tune with the music and the mood of each moment. Four latest-generation moving heads, programmed by our lighting designers especially for your reception, will play the leading role.

No watts, no DMX. The first is a rental offer: hard to understand, easy to say no to. The second lets the couple picture it, and the words “especially for your reception” raise the value of something they would probably have booked anyway.

And now…

Showtime!

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This is where the machines came on in the room. On the page, you’ll have to imagine it.

A couple dancing their first dance on a low cloud of dry ice
Dancing on clouds

10 · Dry ice

Often called

  • Dry ice machine
  • Dry smoke
  • Smoke
  • Dry vapour effect

Call it

Dancing on clouds

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Instead of

Dry ice machine for a first-dance effect, with a dense cloud of smoke lasting three minutes, based on the phenomenon of sublimation.

Say

Dance your first dance as newlyweds while a pure white cloud drifts lazily around your knees, turning it into a romantic dance on the clouds.

The first sounds like it will fill the room with smoke. The second puts the couple at the centre: their dance, their moment, and how it will feel. It is still one of our favourite moments of the night.

A couple dancing under falling artificial snow
Dancing in the snow

11 · Snow

Often called

  • Snow machine
  • Artificial snow effect
  • Snow
  • Foam snow

Call it

Dancing in the snow

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Instead of

Snow effect with synthetic material, from a 2,000 W machine producing 25 m³ per minute, for a large quantity of snow.

Say

Star in a tender scene straight out of the best romantic films, dancing your first dance under thousands of white flakes.

Again: describe the result, not the machine. (Snowball fights not included.) We no longer offer snow today, but the lesson stands.

12 · Cross-selling tip

The combo logic

For couples who want the ultimate, heavenly result: clouds and snow together, “dancing in the skies”. Book both, and the second comes at half price. A reason to say yes, not a free gift.

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13 · Gobo projection

Often called

  • Gobo projection
  • Gobo projector

Call it

Personalised monogram

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Instead of

Projection of the couple’s initials with a 10 W RGB gobo projector onto the dance floor (or ceiling, etc.).

Say

Mark the night of your lives with a completely personal, stylish detail that celebrates your union. Your monogram, or the artwork from your invitation, projected onto a prominent surface of the venue throughout your reception.

We no longer offer monogram projection, but the same rule applies to everything: focus on what it brings to the night, not on the projector.

A couple dancing as white fountain fireworks light up the terrace
Fireworks

14 · Fireworks

Fireworks

  • Impressive, but worn out.
  • Couples often fear they are “not worth it”.
  • They work as an addition to a moment, not as an effect.

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Instead of

4 × 3-metre fountains with battery igniter, remote-controlled, smokeless, non-flammable, etc., etc.

Say

Bring out the intensity of your special moment, dancing your first dance against a glittering backdrop of thousands of white sparks.

Words like “fountain”, “sparkler” or “flash” make couples picture something smaller than what you are offering. Describe the scene instead.

Illuminated LOVE letters on outdoor stairsIlluminated LOVE letters on a lawn by the pool

15 · Illuminated letters

Illuminated letters

  • They draw attention.
  • They give the photographer something to play with.
  • They give the decorator room to go wild.
  • They give the decor a personal character.
  • They fill a space nothing else can.

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Part five

Sales 101.

16 · Introduction to sales

An introduction to sales

  • The words “price” and “cost” weaken you.
  • The couple is at the centre, not the product.
  • Benefits are offered, not sold.
  • Being different is the mother of competition.
  • A good salesperson talks a little and listens a lot.

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17 · Tips

Tips for better sales

  • Contrasts produce emotion: before and after.
  • The enemy of good isn’t cheaper. It’s better.
  • Tell the story right, directly and efficiently.
  • A good salesperson makes their company look smart. A great one makes the customer feel smart.

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Inspiration time

Seth Godin

1st National Wedding DJ Convention · Athens 2017

Nine years on, we still describe moments, not machines. Have a look at how we write about lighting or fireworks today.

Thank you

Credits & thanks

Our thanks to the organisers for the invitation, and to Sofia Georgopoulou, behind much of what was shown that day. Photos: George Michalas Photography, Vangelis Photography (Vangelis Beltzenitis), Mimmika Liakou, John Angelo Photography, Woodhaven Manor and The Letter Co.

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